Rocker Tom Petty suddenly and sadly passed away last week. But he has left us with an incredible legacy of music and memories that span a generation. While his hits are too numerous to mention, perhaps his most impactful song is the haunting tribute to resilience in “I Won’t Back Down”. The tune has an unmistakable defiance befitting the legend of… Read More »
I am not sure if Agnar ever made it off the island of Ios. His two nights may have turned into a lifetime. And while that is not a bad place to get “stuck”, we cannot let that same thing happen to us!
We need to fight complacency! We need to recognize that we are stuck. We need to break out of our rut! And we need to come up with a plan and execute!
Our lives are filled with competition that often boil down to critical one-on-one moments. Our ability to recognize the importance of these moments, and rise to the challenge, will ultimately define our personal and professional success. And one simple story illustrates the power of these moments. It All Comes Down to One Play For several years after college, a close group… Read More »
Life is all about competition. And I learned my greatest competitive lesson on the football field at the tender age of 11. At the time, our Chevy Chase Boys Club Youth Football team was a dominant force in the Washington, DC area. Through 8 weeks, we had run up an impressive string of lopsided victories… Read More »
In difficult times, we need to retrench and re-evaluate our lives. We need to lean on the strength of our inner circle. We need to listen to the advice of those closest to us and embrace a new perspective. And then we need to take action!
We cannot grow without taking action. We cannot move our lives forward without taking action. We cannot stay resilient without taking action!
The Best Defense is a Good Offense! —Vince Lombardi The above quote is often referenced in the world of sports or the theatre of war. What does it mean? Essentially, if you want to gain an advantage over your opponent, a passive, defensive mode will not get the job done. You can’t let someone bring the fight to you. You need to go… Read More »
A few miles off California’s Route 120, in the desert just south of Lodi, lies a little slice of heaven. Having freshly graduated from college, a buddy and I hurtled from San Francisco toward Yosemite on our epic cross-country trip. Suddenly, a sign jutted up from the desert like a beacon in the night: Come Visit Mel’s Saloon:… Read More »
Steve Buscemi. An American icon. Mr. Pink in “Reservoir Dogs”. Donny in “The Big Lebowski”. Carl, of wood-chipper fame, in “Fargo”. The list of unforgettable characters goes on and on. But this brilliant actor struggled mightily with confidence early in his career. The Life of An “Imposter” Steve wasn’t born into a charmed life. He was raised in… Read More »
I realize New Year’s resolutions are no longer in vogue. But we still try to stick with them in our family. (What can I say, we’re old school!) One of my resolutions this year is to keep a more organized home office. My office has become a dumping ground of abandoned toys, unfiled bills, and outdated magazines. As I was cleaning out… Read More »
In the movie “City Slickers”, Curly Washburn (played brilliantly by Jack Palance) is a grizzled cowboy with a simple purpose: Drive cattle across the Colorado Plains until they arrive safely at the ranch. That was the secret to his gratifying and meaningful life. In one poignant scene, he implores Billy Crystal’s character to find the one thing (not his finger!) that matters most in his… Read More »